"You have it easily in your power to increase the sum total of this world's happiness now. How? By giving a few words of sincere appreciation to someone who is lonely or discouraged. Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say today, but the recipient may cherish them over a lifetime." Dale Carnegie (1888-1955) American writer.
Take the
time this Christmas to give a little of yourself…..
The Christmas card
often only receives a brief, quickly scrawled cliché line about enjoying the
day. The whole card buying and
giving routine often becomes as impersonal as the wrapping paper. Relegated to the indignant status of gift accessory. We
buy it quickly, scrawl on it even more quickly, tape it to a gift where it
receives a cursory glance before being unceremoniously dumped onto a table
alongside dozens of other similarly mass scrawled cards. A mere token of measurement of our
popularity (how many cards we received) rather than a medium by which our
family and friends sought to express how they felt about us; to convey how
special we are to them. Well don’t
fall into the trap of the masses this Christmas! Say no to the thirty second scrawled message and take time to write how you feel about the person receiving the card.
Come on... try it...this year take some
time to write a meaningful, heart felt and original message in the card. Take the time to write more than the
two or three lines churned out with the mass production precision of the card manufacturing
plant. Better still hand deliver
it to the people you care for and spend a little quality time with them. Hand the card to them and reinforce
exactly how important it is having them in your life. After all, now is the time of year where we remind those
closest to us (and ourselves) how much they genuinely mean to us?
For something a little more nostalgic to match the traditional Christmas spirit, use a fountain pen. In keeping with the Christmas seasonal colour, try
some Iroshizuku yama-budo or Mont Blanc winter glow ink and write a sincere and
caring message to those closest to you.
Yama-budo Ink - Photo by Eclectic Psyche |
In this day of sms,
email, mobiles and the like, we forget to stop and actually write something
meaningful and lasting to those we care for.
So resist the fast lane trend and stop to smell the roses, or rather
write about the roses in your life!
You will probably find you have more roses than you realize and soon
discover those roses are ever-lasting as a result of the time you take to ink
your feelings.
This season - Ink
it! Write it! In doing so you will
reconnect important relationships and perhaps also rediscover yourself at a
time of year when reflection is key to our growth in the New Year. Take time for a little introspection
and to contemplate who is important to you, then communicate your thoughts to
those you value. And if you
handwrite those thoughts with a fountain pen the message becomes even more
personal, meaningful and special. Well it does for me.
And for the more
creative, try rewriting an old Christmas carol to fit the message you want to
convey. Music written before 1923
is not bound by copyright restrictions.
Just two to try are: I heard the bells on Christmas Day and Joy to the
World! See what you can rework those into as a personalised christmas message.
If you are a little stuck with getting
started with which songs to use, click on this link http://www.christmas-carol-music.org to get some ideas on music/songs that can be used.
Remember to make it
personal, meaningful and from the heart.
Ink it! Write it!
Have a safe, happy and
special Christmas! Hope Santa
brings you that new fountain pen and ink you have wanted all year! See you in 2013! May it be a peaceful year for this
global village we share!
Ku-Jaku (Peacock) Ink - Photo by Eclectic Psyche |